The
author of this book is a thirteen-year-old Japanese autistic boy, and the book
is him basically answering questions about himself and autism. I am really glad
I read it, as it is an awesome introduction to how autistic people see the
world and even though it’s really short, I feel a lot more able to treat
autistic people well in my interactions with them and understand them after
reading this book. I hope that I will be able to use this understanding for
good!
One really
important point that Higashida makes is that the people with autism are usually
the ones suffering the most in any given situation. So even if somebody is
annoying you or acting weird, you have to remember that they are the ones going
through the worst of it, since they’re usually embarrassed. I managed to
understand that autistic people have trouble dealing with lots of stimuli. It
seems like all the colors, noises, smells, and other sensations that hit us all
every day are harder to deal with for autistic people. They also really like
repetition, since it makes them feel more secure, knowing what comes next. For
example, commercials on TV can be reassuring because, as Higashida writes, they’re
like “old friends.” You can also help autistic people by giving them little “prompts”
like cues to do things. Higashida writes, “For example, even after we ask for a
glass of juice and are given it, we won’t actually start drinking until someone’s
said ‘Enjoy’ or ‘Go ahead and drink, then.’” He compares it to going at an
intersection. You need to see a green light.
In
conclusion, this is a good book to better understand people (especially children)
with autism. I aspire to be more kind, understanding, and accomodating in my
future interactions with autistic people, and hopefully I can do so with the
help of this book.
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